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COVID killed my dad and loneliness was its accomplice

OPINION: The lockdown we all faced with our loved ones in hospital or in an aged care facility was heartbreaking.

"Don't worry … it will go fast … I'm sure I'll see you soon … you'll be OK," I constantly told my father on the phone.

The thing is, I had no idea. No one did.

Mark Jessop with his father Geoff.

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One night during the lockdown, a nurse at dad's aged care facility called me late in the evening.

"Geoff is not well," the nurse said.

"He is breathing but not responding to touch or when we talk to him and I've called an ambulance.

"I think you should come down."

The ambulance had been there for 15 minutes before I arrived.

His blood pressure was good, sugar levels fine, no irregular heartbeat.

He was fine but still not responding – until I grabbed his hand and spoke to him.

Due to the lockdown, a month had gone by since I had last seen him, been next to him.

It was extremely sad to see that he had changed so much in such a short time.

Geoff contracted COVID-19 in hospital and later died.Mark Jessop's separation from his his father in aged care was, like for so many Australians during the pandemic, heartbreaking.

I asked the ambulance crew if there was something they could give him, something that he needed.

The response?

"I have no medication stronger than what you just gave him," were his exact words.

Dad passed away six months later from COVID-19 – which he caught in hospital, would you believe – during a regular eye check-up.

I know in my heart that he would have had a better chance of surviving if his body, heart and mind weren't suffering from being alone.

Mark says his father Geoff would have had a better chance at surviving if he wasn't alone.

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I'm not out to blame anyone as no one was prepared for a pandemic.

But the outcome of the pandemic should be a priority for this government, not just an inquiry.

I truly believe that each prime minister elected is there to do the best for the country, no matter what party is in government.

I don't agree with everything they do but I trust that the decisions they make are because they believe it is in the best interest of the country.

Sadly, I no longer believe that.

Bunnings sets record straight amid fears of sausage sizzle demise

Bunnings has set the record straight after concerns incoming food safety laws would spell the demise of the business' beloved sausage sizzles.

Food Standards Australia and New Zealand are introducing new requirements for people in the food service, catering and retail sectors to undergo an online training course before they are able to handle food from December this year.

This sparked concerns that the much-loved Bunnings sausage sizzles would come to an end under these new requirements.

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But have no fear, Director of Store Operations at Bunnings Ben Camire confirmed the sausage sizzles will continue their 20-year tradition at stores.

"We've been supporting thousands of local community groups via fundraising sausage sizzles for well over two decades," he said.

"The fact many families make it a tradition to visit their local Bunnings store on the weekend, grab a snag and raise money for local causes brings our team a lot of joy.

"As community groups host sausage sizzles at our stores for fundraising and charitable purposes, it's our understanding they're exempt from the new safety standards scheduled to come into effect later this year."

Camire said all community groups who operate sausage sizzles at Bunnings have been provided guidelines to meet food handling requirements set by local councils.

"The detail can vary depending on their location, but in general this covers the safe handling and preparation of food," Camire said.

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Bunnings sausage sizzle

The new Food Standards code has an exemption for charity events like sausage sizzles meaning the iconic Bunnings events can continue.

"If these are run as fundraising events i.e. 'an event that raises funds solely for a community or charitable cause and not for personal financial gain,' the requirements in Standard 3.2.2A will not apply," Food Standards Australia New Zealand said in a statement.

Standard 3.2.2A is the term for the code changes introducing training modules.

"The exemption recognises fundraising events are often run by volunteers, on an ad hoc basis," the statement added.

"However, organisations running fundraising events still have to ensure only safe and suitable food is sold."

The little-discussed pattern in male sperm counts

A leading Australian IVF expert has sounded the alarm on declining male fertility, saying people need to be aware about the worrying factors that could be playing a part, including toxins in our environment.

The warning comes as new data released today by the University of NSW shows one in three IVF cycles undertaken by couples trying to conceive is due to male infertility. 

Researchers from the university began including information about male fertility in its annual Assisted Reproductive Technology in Australia and New Zealand (ANZARD) report last year.

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Male sperm counts and sperm quality is declining globally.

Today's latest report, based on 2021 data, shows the underlying reason for male infertility remains unknown in almost three-quarters of cases. 

The most common confirmed cause was a previous vasectomy, which accounted for 8.6 per cent of cycles undertaken for male infertility, while genetic conditions accounted for 3.9 per cent.

Melbourne IVF medical director, Dr Fleur Cattrall, said in her experience it was closer to half of cases where male infertility issues were a factor in couples struggling to conceive.

"It may not be the primary reason that fertility treatment is needed, but it might be a factor that we need to address in half of cases," Cattrall said.

Concerns about declining sperm counts and sperm quality in men have come to the fore in recent years, but have been around for decades.

In 1992, a groundbreaking and controversial study published in the British Medical Journal by Danish researchers found sperm counts in men had fallen by 50 per cent over the previous 50 years.

Multiple other studies have since confirmed these dramatic findings.

In November last year, international researchers published a study using global sperm samples taken from 1981-2013.

The study found a 62.3 per cent decline in total sperm counts and a 51.6 per cent decrease in sperm concentration – the number of sperm per millilitre of semen.

"The data suggest that this worldwide decline is continuing in the 21st century at an accelerated pace," authors of the report concluded.

"Research on the causes of this continuing decline and actions to prevent further disruption of male reproductive health are urgently needed."

What's behind declining sperm counts?

Scientists have shown there are a range of factors that can lead to male infertility, including obesity, diseases and genetic issues.

Cattrall said there was no doubt lifestyle factors, which had led to a rise in obesity and diabetes over the past few decades, were having an impact on sperm quality.

"We have certainly seen an increase in obesity and diabetes over time, and this then affects sperm quantity and quality," Cattrall said.

"A high junk food diet has been shown to correlate with poorer sperm numbers and quality as well."

Melbourne IVF medical director Dr Fleur Cattrall.

Cattrall said it was very likely that a myriad of environmental factors, such as pollution and chemical exposure, were also at play.

"There are endocrine disrupting molecules, which are a lot of chemicals that come from plastics, and they're molecules that mimic body hormones," Cattrall said.

"Then there's an increased exposure to heavy metals and pesticides."

University of Virginia Associate Professor of Urology Ryan Smith has been studying how chemicals in the environment are affecting male fertility.

While researchers can't expose humans to harmful compounds in order to measure outcomes, the weight of evidence was growing about the associations between toxins in the environment and decreasing male fertility, Smith wrote in a piece in The Conversation in 2021.

"Plasticisers are found in most plastics – like water bottles and food containers – and exposure is associated with negative impacts on testosterone and semen health," he wrote. 

"Herbicides and pesticides abound in the food supply and some – specifically those with synthetic organic compounds that include phosphorus – are known to negatively affect fertility."

Similarly, air pollution and radiation exposure from laptops, mobile phones and modems were also likely contributors, he wrote.

Cattrall said declining sperm quality was an important issue the IVF industry was well aware of – and Australians and the government should be too.

"I think as a community we need awareness. We need our governments to be watching what plastic exposure and chemicals are being put into our environment," she said.

"Individuals also need to be aware that lifestyle factors can have a significant impact on their health." 

'No specimen provided'

One Melbourne couple who know all too well the struggles of male infertility are Sarah and Steven Gillam.

The pair spent three years trying to conceive naturally, before going to their GP when Mrs Gillam did not fall pregnant.

"I still remember everything about the appointment to this day," Mrs Gillam said, adding that their doctor recommended her husband supply a sperm sample so that his sperm count could be tested.

"When the results came back, it said 'no specimen provided'," Mrs Gillam said.

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Sarah and Steven Gillam, pictured with their 'miracle" daughter Chloe and son Charlie.

Confused, they repeated the test, but got the same results.

"We were told there's actually nothing there and you won't be able to conceive naturally, you will need IVF," Mrs Gillam said.

"After that appointment, I was sitting in the car and I just cried." 

Mr Gillam was diagnosed by a specialist with Klinefelter syndrome, a genetic condition affecting males who are born with an extra X chromosome.

Men with Klinefelter syndrome often have low testosterone and produce little or no sperm.

The couple went to Melbourne IVF clinic where Mr Gillam underwent testicular surgery to see if any sperm could be found.

"Steven went under the knife and they found 11 sperm. Just 11. Normally males produce millions," Mrs Gillam said.

Meanwhile, Mrs Gillam underwent an egg collection procedure, in which 12 eggs were extracted.

"We got a call to say that six embryos had survived," Mrs Gillam said.

Those six embryos proved to be all the couple needed to create their family of four.

The couple's daughter Chloe is now eight years old and son Charlie is one.

"We are forever grateful, we love our children and we love being parents," Mrs Gillam said.

"I couldn't imagine what our life would be without that technology being available.

Mrs Gillam said she was passionate about sharing her family's IVF journey to raise awareness about male infertility and to encourage couples to seek help 

"I always say, if you want to have a family, don't try too late. If you find out that you've got infertility issues, it's a long road," she said.

Problems relating to female fertility had traditionally attracted the lion's share of attention, Cattrall said.

"I think historically we've always focused on the female and the focusing on male fertility has been a bit behind," she said. 

"It's important for (men) to be talking about their fertility issues, because women have been doing this for a number of years now. 

"And it's important for men to know they're not alone, particularly when half of infertility cases are male-factor related." 

Contact reporter Emily McPherson at em********@******om.au

Inside the transformation of Kim Jong Un's sister

When North Korean leader Kim Jong Un sat down to sign the guestbook at a space center last week as part of his momentous meeting with Russian President Vladimir Putin, a young woman casually leaned over his shoulder to read the message.

Among the assortment of mostly male officials stiffly clustered around the world leaders, she immediately stood out.

The woman was Kim Yo Jong — younger sister of the North Korean leader and one of the country's most important political advisors.

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Since stepping into the international spotlight in 2018 with a history-making visit to the Winter Olympics in Pyeongchang, South Korea — the first member of her family since the end of the Korean War to set foot in the South — she has become a key mouthpiece of the regime.

And one with a sharp tongue.

As Sung-Yoon Lee, a Fellow at The Woodrow Wilson International Center for Scholars writes in his new book, "The Sister," Kim Yo Jong is her nation's "chief censor, spokeswoman, mocker and threat-and-malice dispenser."

CNN interviewed Sung-Yoon Lee about Kim Yo Jong's remarkable rise in North Korea's highly patriarchal society, and how much power she really wields beyond the tough talk. The views expressed here are his own.

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In this Sept. 19, 2018, file photo, Kim Yo Jong, right, helps her brother North Korean leader Kim Jong Un sign a joint statement following the summit with South Korean President Moon Jae-in at the Paekhwawon State Guesthouse in Pyongyang, North Korea.

CNN: Of all the members of the Kim Dynasty, why did you choose to focus on Kim Yo Jong in your book?

Sung-Yoon Lee: Kim Yo Jong is the first preeminent and powerful female figure to emerge in the brutish, male-dominated political landscape of North Korea, ruled by the Kim family for 75 years.

Since 2020, she has governed as the de facto Number Two royal in the dynasty, second only to her brother, Kim Jong Un.

Young, photogenic, smart and acerbic, Ms. Kim appears to exercise real power — with a vituperative verbal twist. She is prone to making threats of nuclear strikes against the South, and is undoubtedly the most powerful woman in North Korea today.

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CNN: What do we know about Kim Yo Jong's early life? And her relationship with her brother?

Sung-Yoon Lee: The youngest of the seven children fathered by Kim Jong Il, the previous supreme leader, she has been doted on by her parents from birth. Both mum and dad reportedly called her "sweet princess." And dad had her sit next to him at every family meal, according to a former chef for the family.

She spent four years of her childhood, from about nine to 13, living with her two brothers in Switzerland (Kim Jong Un and Kim Jong Chol), during which time she formed a close bond with Jong Un, the future leader.

In North Korean video footage, the Kim siblings are often smiling at each other as if they are reaffirming their bond. Even during her brother's formal events, she insouciantly tends to her own interests in the background while all other senior officials stand at stiff attention before her brother. Cleary, she occupies a unique position in her nation's hierarchy.

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CNN: How did the Kim Dynasty get started?

Sung-Yoon Lee: In the Kim dynasty's official history, Kim Il Sung, state founder and the Kim siblings' grandfather, virtually single-handedly liberated the Korean nation from Japanese colonial rule in 1945. How? By fighting a war of independence from the foothills of Mt. Paektu, a majestic mountain that straddles the North's border with China and, in Korean mythology, is the cradle of the ethnic Korean nation.

It's a wildly exaggerated claim, for Kim Il Sung was but a junior officer in the Soviet Army who, upon Japan's surrender mainly thanks to the US, was deputized by Stalin to be the leader of the Communist North.

North Korea has politically appropriated this mythology into the Kim dynasty's very source of legitimacy; that is, woven a fictitious narrative that Kim Il Sung is the savior and his progeny are also endowed with such supernatural powers.

Kim Yo Jong walks ahead of South Korean President Moon Jae-in and North Koran leader Kim Jong Un, right, arrive at the headquarters of the Central Committee of the Workers' Party in Pyongyang, North Korea.

CNN: In 2018, Kim Yo Jong attended South Korea's Winter Olympics with a message of peace. How has her language changed since then?

Sung-Yoon Lee: Having charmed much of South Korea as a debutante on the international stage of the Pyeongchang Winter Games in February 2018, she has undergone a character metamorphosis; that is, she has dramatically turned herself from a haughty-but-not-discourteous princess from Pyongyang to a sometimes foul-mouthed leader of the brutal, medieval-style, absolute monarchy that is her dynasty.

She has ridiculed Seoul's presidential office (variously likening it to a "frightened dog barking" or "idiots" who parrot the US) and called Joe Biden "senile." These contrasts and the near-absolute power she appears to wield make her a fascinating contemporary political figure.

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CNN: But is she all talk? What are some examples of the power she wields?

Sung-Yoon Lee: In June 2020, she issued a written statement calling on South Korea to pass a new law that criminalizes the sending of leaflets, money, medicine, toothpaste, etc. across the border into the North.

(For decades, defectors and other human rights activists have sent the materials North, usually by balloons.)

Hours after Ms. Kim's directive, the South said it would comply. The new law was passed that December in the face of mounting criticism from civic groups within the South and international bodies, including the United Nations.

Lord David Alton, a senior Member of the British Parliament, called the South's new legislation a "gag law." Yet, the then South Korean administration, enjoying a supermajority in its parliament, pressed ahead. It is the first successful case of the North extending its stifling censorship across the border into the South — a feat that even Ms. Kim's grandfather, father, or brother could not accomplish.

That June, she also threatened to blow up the North-South Joint Liaison Office located just north of the inter-Korean border and built entirely with South Korean funds. Days later, demolished it was. I write about both episodes at some length in the book.

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North Korean leader Kim Jong Un signs a joint declaration, with the help of his sister Kim Yo Jong (L), a senior official of the ruling Workers' Party, after talks with South Korean President Moon Jae In at the House of Peace in the border village of Panmunjeom on April 27, 2018.

CNN: It's so hard to gather information on the family — how did you go about researching your book?

Sung-Yoon Lee: I've studied and taught about North Korea for 20 years. I've read virtually everything that's been published about Kim Yo Jong and her family in Korean (including North Korean sources), Chinese and English.

I've watched hundreds of hours of North Korean footage and read thousands of North Korean articles and statements in writing this book.

And I've interviewed folks who have met Kim Yo Jong and also former senior North Korean officials who have defected.

CNN: What might the future hold for Kim Yo Jong? Does power inevitably shift to the next generation after her brother?

Sung-Yoo Lee: By convention, power should shift to one of Kim Jong Un's children instead of his sibling. But, Kim Yo Jong, as the boldly assertive sister of the supreme leader, is a novelty. What lies in her future? Will she ever assume the top leadership? It's a question to which there cannot be a firm answer. But it's not entirely an unreasonable one, either.

Memories of the wrathful nipping winter of 2013, when the Kim siblings had their uncle, Jang Song Thaek, publicly humiliated and killed, underline the ruthlessness of the regime.

Her dynasty, after all, is the strangest on earth.

Sophie Turner sues Joe Jonas to turn over children's passports

Actor Sophie Turner sued her estranged pop star husband Joe Jonas on Thursday to force him to turn over the passports of the couple's two young daughters so she can take them to England.

Turner, who was served with divorce papers this month after four years of marriage to Jonas, said in her petition that the couple had planned to raise their daughters in her native England.

It also said that the girls, ages 3 and 1, “are both fully involved and integrated in all aspects of daily and cultural life in England".

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Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner

Best known for playing Sansa Stark on HBO's “Game of Thrones,” Turner filed her petition in federal court in New York under the child abduction clauses of the Hague Convention, an international treaty aimed at compelling the return of a child taken from their country of “habitual residence.”

Turner, 27, says that she and Jonas, 34, made a mutual decision to raise their daughters in England and to relocate there in April of this year.

During part of August and September, while Jonas began a tour with his band the Jonas Brothers in the United States, Turner would be working long hours filming a television series in England.

So, Turner said she and Jonas had agreed that the children would travel with Jonas and a nanny.

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The plan was for Turner to travel to New York after filming wrapped on September 14 to collect the children, but in the meantime “the breakdown of the parties' marriage happened very suddenly," Turner said.

According to Turner, Jonas filed for divorce in Florida on Sept. 1 and she learned about it through the media on Sept. 5.

The pair issued a joint statement on their Instagram accounts on Sept. 6 saying they had mutually decided to amicably end the marriage.

Turner says she and Jonas saw each other on Sept. 17 — and she asked him for the children's passports so she could take them back to England, but Jonas refused to turn over the passports of the girls, who were born in the United States, and have dual U.S. and British citizenship.

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The court filing says the girls are temporarily living with Turner in a Manhattan hotel.

The Jonas Brothers were scheduled to perform in Philadelphia on Thursday and in Baltimore on Friday.

Jonas said in a statement that he is “seeking shared parenting with the kids so that they are raised by both their mother and father” and that he is “okay with the kids being raised both in the U.S. and the UK".

“This is an unfortunate legal disagreement about a marriage that is sadly ending," he added. "When language like 'abduction' is used, it is misleading at best, and a serious abuse of the legal system at worst".

Jonas said he did not surprise Turner with divorce papers but rather filed for divorce after what he said were “multiple conversations with Sophie".

Jonas has been a pop idol since he and his brothers Nick and Kevin formed the Jonas Brothers in 2005. He and Turner met in 2016 and married in 2019.

Cricketer accused of 'stealthing' condom in 'wild' sex

Sri Lankan cricketer Danushka Gunathilaka had plenty of opportunity to covertly remove a condom during rough sex with a Sydney woman, a court has heard.

As the 32-year-old's sexual assault trial entered its final day on Thursday, crown prosecutor Gabrielle Steedman said the sportsman should be found guilty of "stealthing".

She said Gunathilaka unsuccessfully tried to negotiate out of wearing a condom during sex at the woman's eastern suburbs home and became annoyed when she would not give in.

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Danushka Gunathilaka leaving the Downing Centre.

The cricketer allegedly slapped and choked the woman during sex Steedman described as "rough and wild".

"The complainant was in a vulnerable position where the accused was in control of what he was doing with his hands," she told Judge Sarah Huggett.

"The suggestion he did not have an opportunity in which to physically remove the condom is not correct. There was plenty."

Gunathilaka's barrister Murugan Thangaraj SC attacked the woman's credibility, saying she had morphed her allegations over time to create a false narrative that the batter was an arrogant, forceful and aggressive man.

The cricketer was respectful of his date and the pair had engaged in consensual sex by candlelight in her bedroom, followed by an intimate discussion in which she said they had a connection from a past life, he told the court.

CCTV of Danushka Gunathilaka.

The woman's evidence there had been no pause in the sex, which had been at times fast and slow, was fatal to the crown case that Gunathilaka had somehow removed the condom without her knowledge or consent, Thangaraj said.

"She describes continuous sexual activity … that ends it," he told Sydney's Downing Centre District Court.

"The Crown cannot prove its case at all."

The alleged victim matched with Gunathilaka on Tinder before the pair met at Sydney's Opera Bar on November 2, 2022.

They later had a pizza dinner in the city centre and caught a ferry to the woman's home.

The court previously heard the sex was so rough the woman's lips and breast were injured.

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Sri Lankan international cricketer Danushka Gunathilaka outside Downing Centre District Court.

The trial, which is being heard without a jury, has heard evidence from two friends of the alleged victim, who described her as fragile and distraught the day after Gunathilaka was invited into her home.

Police officers who spoke to the woman have been grilled about the way they handled the case, including omitting crucial details, throwing out notes and potentially contaminating witnesses.

Character witnesses have also come forward to the court, describing the cricketer as a gentle, fun-loving man who had never been violent against women.

Gunathilaka has been on bail in Sydney during the trial but has been unable to play cricket or return to his hometown of Colombo in Sri Lanka due to the charge against him.

The trial continues.

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